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PostSubject: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Thu Apr 10, 2008 7:37 am

About the previous topic on how to talk to a Girl and for the comments that it received i figured that i should post this one.

This is typically hard or easy, it depends on how you approach it. If you're determined to get the girl, here are some steps to take.

1. If you don't know the girl that well, get to know her and become her friend. If you know the girl, try to see if she ever wants to hang out sometime.
2. If she "flirts" with you, she might be giving you "signs" to try to tell you that she likes you, if she just acts like a friend, try to spend more time together.
3. When you get to know her well or you guys become better friends, try to see if she ever wants to go out or something of that sort.
4. If you get to a point where you think she might like you, try to ask her without actually saying "I like you". If you say that and she says that you and her are just close friends, then ease off a little bit and let things flow naturally, if you just want to tell her she likes you, make sure she is not the type to tell her boyfriend, that will cause conflict and possibly a fight between you and that boyfriend.

* One thing to do is get to know her and her friends, if you get in good with her friends, they could possibly tell her nice things about you and she could start to be interested in you.
* Talk to her and if she talks about things that you can relate to, then when you talk and listen to her, she will start to think, "Wow, me and him could really be good together", she could also come to you when she wants to talk about things she can't share with her boyfriend.
* DO NOT act weird around her, just be cool and regular around her and then its smooth sailing from there.
* DO NOT tell anyone that you like her unless its your best friend and you can ABSOLUTELY TRUST him/her.

* If the girl just treats you like a brother, then that's the "KISS OF DEATH" they will usually just want to be your friend then - But time heals all wounds! It's never impossible.
* DO NOT give her your AIM or e-mail address IF you are weak-hearted, she could possibly bother you and break you, if that happens, you will most likely tell her that you like her, and that could pose as a problem if it gets around.
* DO NOT ever let the fact that you like her IF you are an amateur, slip out to anyone that has a good relationship with her, they could tell her or her boyfriend, and that is not the greatest thing that can happen.
* Beware: If she breaks up with her boyfriend to be with you, what's to stop her from breaking up with you in turn when a new guy comes along?

Things You'll Need

* Good looks (in competition with the boyfriend)
* Good relationship with the girl (if you don't have one, make one)
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PostSubject: Re: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:04 pm

"* Beware: If she breaks up with her boyfriend to be with you, what's to stop her from breaking up with you in turn when a new guy comes along?"

It may be a good point if trust was something regular and something, no matter what, was the same to anyone. This is a point of high reflexion when you want to get involved. All relationships include trust and trust is the only thing that makes you sleep well when you girl goes out. Because of the trust, you believes what she says (well, except if your instincts and except if you know she lies) and you believe her no matter what. This is exactly why you shouldn't be doubtful about the fact she could break up with you because she already broke up with a guy in the past. Without trust, there is no relationship, there is just two people being together but denying the fact they can believe the other no matter what. Doubts come, and the relationship becomes really unstable. The trust she shared with the former guy is not the same she shares with you and on this point, everything changes, that's why you shouldn't believe she could break with you because she already broke with someone.

"* One thing to do is get to know her and her friends, if you get in good with her friends, they could possibly tell her nice things about you and she could start to be interested in you."

I am tempted to say that not ony friends, but also family. In short, every people she cares about, every people she could ask for piece of advice. Because the wisdom always comes from your friends and family relatives when it comes to love. Because she cannot trust only her instincts and her heart, she has to trust the ones who saw her grow and who have experiences.

But don't try to lure her if you don't think it is good for you both to get involved. Just do things properly and in both interests. Love comes with synergy, complicity and so on. As far as I can judge, be natural, and if you can interest her naturally, you will interest her friends. Or this is not worth the game, because if you can't have the approval or the relatives, you won't live a good relationships. And beware : friends and relatives are really important to anyone. Love can die, friendship may not.
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PostSubject: Re: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:40 am

Things You'll Need

* Good looks (in competition with the boyfriend)
* Good relationship with the girl (if you don't have one, make one)

Haha
I liked this part
'In competition with the boyfriend'

But to some girls humor/confidence is more important than looks. A looker might not necessarily be a joker get it? rofl
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PostSubject: Re: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Mon Apr 14, 2008 9:00 am

Looks and confidence are basically just the tools that helps you in giving the girl interest in knowing you.

A cover of a book if you may which makes them want to reach for that, and see what it is thats inside it that they may like. ( don't think green ) gehehe
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PostSubject: Re: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Thu Apr 17, 2008 12:03 pm

Nice Thoughts,


But id have to disagree for some of it,


ALOT of girls like it when your straight up and say what your feeling, but that is usually after you have established the fact that you like them,


SEEING as they have a BF, dont lead on to hard, She will just say she has to go or somthing, but DEF be like, we needa hang out one day, maybe catch a movie, Dont call it a date.. ITS NOT.

From there you can see how you go along,




Just a handy Hint,


THE GIRL IS ALWAYS RIGHT.
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PostSubject: Re: How to Talk to a Girl That You Like if She Has a Boyfriend   Thu Apr 17, 2008 2:51 pm

Ganksta wrote:
Just a handy Hint,


THE GIRL IS ALWAYS RIGHT.

The girl wants you to think she's always right, but the thing is, she is not. Being right or not is just a matter of situations. A girl is, by the society, more shaped to be in the center of interests of everything. They often think they experienced more hardships or are more likely to know the real things of society, but guess what, she is totally wrong !

In my experience (that's important to restrict my opinion to my limited experience), girls are more handy and more used to deal with society problems than men. Because they are less protected by their parents, more sensitive to families' concerns (such as baby sitting, washing up, ...) and more depending to themselves (growing age finishing sooner than boys, ...), they have to be concerned with more society problems and horny issues.

But that don't make them more wise. But among figures, experience is always stronger. As for me, I never felt that my gf or my previous were always right. But yeah, they always wanted to be right.
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